Maybe I'm missing something here with all this bullshit but I have question...
What the fuck is with all this "we" shit when it comes to "healing"?
When did "we" become party to the issues between other people? When did "we" start becoming involved in the shit that happened between other people at times that "we" weren't around and weren't directly involved? And why in the green hopping Christ in a pogo stick did "we" decide that this was anyone else's business other than those that were involved?
What the fuck do we have to "heal" from? Did I miss a trauma-by-proxy rule somewhere? Why is this shit any of our business? Even if someone decides they're going to make their interpersonal issues public knowledge. Because I'm kinda sick and fucking tired of these drum-circle, touchy-feely, kumbaya bullshit expectations of empathy where when something fucked up happens to 1 person, every single person that knows that person has to "heal with them". No you fucking don't. Do you know what you gotta do? Give em a hug and be there if they need to talk if they're your friend. And if they aren't, why the fuck do you care? But do you know what you don't have to do? Heal. Know why? Cause nothing fucking happened to you.
Hell... in some ways... this "we all need to heal" bullshit is even more insulting to those that are involved in a shitty situation.
This is why I can't fucking stand the intarwubz sometimes. I said it once and I'll say it again... Deal with the shit between you and someone else between you and someone else. Don't turn it into some kind of fucking spectacle. Cause you know what all this sounds like? It sounds like a YOU problem and not a ME problem. And certainly not any sort of "we" problem.
But hey... I guess some people just feel the need to make use of those pitchforks and torches sometimes. I mean... Why buy them if they just sit in the shed?
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