So... the Kegs & Eggs party that @Unwonted & I are putting together is gonna get changed from 8am to 10am on Saturday. Just wanted to put that out there before I got onto the rest of the thought today...
Yesterday I thought about going thru my list of kinks an starting to explain them and what I dig about them... I'll give you a bunch of the simple ones today. Things that require only short explainations. Tomorrow, you'll get a good one with some deep exploration.
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| Yeah, it's for YouTube but fuck it... it's just as funny |
2. adults that act like adults - this one is also pretty simple. Yet still very important. This is mainly in regards to bottoms, but Tops can also be guilty of this one. Being a bottom is not an excuse for acting like a child. It's not an excuse to throw temper tantrums or do any of those other things that adults should have grown out of doing when you stopped being a teenager. Things like having common courtesy and understanding that behaviors have a time and place where they're appropriate. Just generally acting like a well-adjusted person who is able to take care of themselves. Most D-types are looking for an s-type. Not to become someone's babysitter. And yes, Tops occasionally are guilty of this as well, but I've found that it's more of a trait of bottoms. The Tops that are guilty of this are normally the kind that don't really want an s-type so much as a maid and cook.
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| Imagine it. Let it infect your brain. |
4. backscatter x-ray porn - another joke stemming from an RTOTD. The new-ish security scanner things at the airports that see thru your clothes but not thru your body. They don't look exactly like you're naked but they don't look like a hospital x-ray either. There's gotta be some way to make porn with that. And I'd love to see it.
5. bacon - because everyone loves fucking bacon. Though with the recent bacon "fad" that's been going on everywhere, I'm thinking about removing this one. Because everyone loves bacon. And if you don't love bacon... you're just un-American. Dirty commie pinko.
And finally, I'll give you one that requires some actual explanation today...
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| Do you have any idea how hard it is to find a picture of a girl begging in Google Images with a strict SafeSearch control setting? Really fucking hard! |
But with begging, there's something wildly hot about it. It's an affirmation of control. But that's just the surface of it.
Underneath that, there's a number of the psychological points that it hits that are an even bigger turn-on. Begging not only affirms your control, but it also affirms their submission to that control. There's an admission aspect to it. And it also has an implied degradation aspect to it and, if one wishes, it can directly lead into an explicit degradation aspect.
Begging is a wonderful stepping stone in play. One party wanting something very badly, while the other controls whether that person gets the object of their desire. Be it a physical object, an orgasm, even just a permission to do something else or release from a punishment.
Regardless of what it is, it's a stepping stone that can be used by the D-type to do a number of things. It can be used for bargaining. It can be used to modify behavior. It can be used to gain access into deeper desires of the other person. Or it could simply be used to get an explicit acceptance of their submission.
They're giving you something to use against them so that they can get what they want too. They know that they're submitting to whatever my sadistic mind can come up with because of how much they want something And that is wildly hot.
So what is it about begging that you like?
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